Resident revisits treasured childhood memories of milking cows

Judy Price and some of her fellow residents enjoyed a fun day out at a dairy farm, reliving childhood memories and even experiencing milking the cows
Our companion Elise Woolnough said: “Several of our residents grew up on or around farms and have happy memories of the animals, farm life and the countryside.

“Judy in particular, often talks and reminisces about her days as a young girl taking family holidays at a farm in Somerset, where she would ride horses, play with dogs and milk the cows.

“When she said she would love to have one more opportunity to milk a cow if she could, we looked around for a place to do this.

“As you would imagine, most farms have stopped milking cows by hand these days. But we were thrilled to find a local dairy farm, Holfleet Dairy based in Bockhampton near Dorchester, which was happy for us to visit and see how milking is now done.

Holfleet Dairy is home to over 400 cows, of which 350 are milked twice daily. Much of this milk is supplied to Marks & Spencer.

[caption id="attachment_5374" align="alignnone" width="768"] Colten companion Elise Woolnough and Judy Price[/caption]

Elise said: “All the residents were very interested to see how times and technology have moved on.

“We were invited up to the milking platform where we were able to watch the cows being milked, hear about the different equipment and basically enjoy a masterclass in all things cattle!”

Judy was also invited to assist in milking one of the cows.
She said: “I used to milk the cows by hand. But I imagine it would be very difficult to milk so many cows twice a day by hand!”
Judy trained as a doctor but said if she hadn’t entered medicine she would have loved to work on a farm.

“This has brought back many memories of my days in Somerset and has made me very happy.” she added.

Fellow Avon Cliff resident, Jo Hart said: “The trip to the farm was very interesting. I loved seeing young people so passionate about what they do and sharing so much interesting information with us. I also love cows – so this was a great day out for me!”

 

Joyce continues to sail through her 100th Birthday Bucket List

Following her adventures on horseback and a racetrack, plucky Joyce Ward left dry land for the latest challenge on her ‘100th Birthday Bucket List’
Joyce, 99, turns 100 in May and has compiled a list of 10 adventures she wants to have before her ‘big birthday’.

Helping to make these wishes come true are our companionship team here at St Catherines View.

Companion Laura Sheldrake said: “In recent months, Joyce has ticked off some amazing experiences including horse riding and even speeding around Goodwood Race Circuit.
“When she said she wanted to sail again like she did when she was younger, we said: “Right! Let’s find a boat!”
As Joyce uses a wheelchair, this was no easy feat. But the team contacted Testwood Lakes Sailability in Hampshire, to see if they could help.

Laura said: “Let’s just say they really pushed the boat out!”

[caption id="attachment_5796" align="alignnone" width="1024"] Joyce Sails Towards a Century[/caption]

Pauline Woodhouse from Testwood Lakes Sailability invited Joyce along to be sailed around the lake by an experienced skipper in a non-capsizable dingy.

Laura said: “When we arrived, we were greeted by Phil Rawdon who explained to Joyce what we were going to be doing and made sure all safety precautions were in place.

“Then, the receptionists Carol Roberts and Carolyne O’Hara supplied Joyce, myself and our photographer with life jackets and we were taken down to the pontoon where we were met by Donald Loines, Stephen Hiscock, John Webb and Kevin Warland, who along with Colten senior care lead Niki Lawrence made sure Joyce was transferred safely into the dingy.”

Joyce was taken around the lake by experienced skipper John Kuyser. While Maurice Humbertsone took Colten photographer Ian Simpson in a powerboat to capture stunning pictures of the special trip.

Asked how she was enjoying the experience Joyce said: “This is wonderful. I feel so special. It’s like when I went sailing when I was younger. I can’t believe this was all for me. Thank you so much!”

John Kuyser said: “It was a delight to have Joyce’s company for a sail around Testwood Lake, with some exciting sailing in a lively breeze.”
Stephen Hiscock, one of the team on the pontoon added: “I’m not sure who enjoyed it more, Joyce or the rest of us! What fun it was to have her with us on the lake.”
After the sailing, Joyce was presented with a birthday cake by all the volunteers at Testwood Lake Sailabilty.

Laura said: “The weather was amazing and Joyce really did have a day to remember.

“We would like to say a huge thank you to Pauline, Phil and all the other volunteers for the wonderful day they organised for Joyce.
“To see her smiling, laughing and having fun was exactly what we wanted – These wonderful people all made her special wish come true.”
Joyce’s full bucket list is: playing a piano, going in a boat, cooking a meal for everyone at St Catherines View, using a sewing machine, a ride in a fast car, a visit to a chocolate factory, a visit to the forest, a visit to a castle, throwing an American-themed party and a steam train ride.

The Companionship team is now planning for her penultimate challenge when she will be swapping waves for tracks – and a thrilling ride on a steam train.

Art classes inspire learners at Fernhill

Budding artists at Fernhill have begun producing work under the guidance of a professional

Johanna Kennedy-Wall is a New Forest-based artist who specialises in murals, portraits, and sculpture.

When she gave a one-hour taster session at our home, our staff were impressed with how much joy and inspiration it gave participants, so they invited her back.

Johanna has now started monthly art classes involving a range of media including watercolours, pastels and acrylics.

[caption id="attachment_6255" align="alignnone" width="768"] Heads down for the monthly art class at Fernhill Colten Care’s Fernhill dementia care home in Longham, Dorset.[/caption]

“We’re stimulating lots of conversations and triggering memories,” said Johanna, who is renowned for her equine art. “Some people were a little nervous to begin with but I could see them warming up towards the art and letting themselves go. The atmosphere is calm and engaged and everyone gets something out of it.”

Johanna was recommended to approach care homes when she gave a session for volunteers at the not-for-profit group In Jolly Good Company.

This was set up to help alleviate the physical and mental issues caused by loneliness and isolation through friendship, joy and a sense of community.

Some of its clients live with dementia or memory loss and her students felt she could make a positive difference to those at care home experiencing the same issues.
“I find the care home classes really satisfying and enjoyable,” said Johanna. “Fernhill is such a welcoming home and it is lovely to see the residents get involved. As well as pictures on paper, we’re painting pebbles from the beach, doing decoupage on upcycled glass jars, creating collages and decorating vintage memory boards. It all underpins conversations about colours, visions and memories.”
Ann Marie Knight from our Companionship Team said: “Johanna’s sessions are very educational and therapeutic. She teaches the basics and then lets learners enjoy the experience for themselves. Our residents produced some amazing watercolours in their first session which they really enjoyed and we’re only too happy to enable them to do more. We’re going to frame some of the works and put them up in our arts and crafts room. Residents love the idea of that.”

Residents do their bit to tackle rural isolation 

Kindhearted residents have done their bit to support a charity that helps people in the county who face social isolation.
Here at Newstone House, we organised a charity day, raffle and pancake race to help the Friends of Stour Connect, a day centre in the town.

Residents at the home wanted to ‘give something back to the community’ as users of the centre’s dementia café and hydrotherapy pool.

A cheque presentation for £220 was held at Stour Connect on a dedicated afternoon for Newstone House visitors.

[caption id="attachment_6179" align="alignnone" width="1024"] At the Stour Connect day centre with cheque are Karlene Horswill, left, Companionship Team Leader, and Sheryn Biggs, Stour Connect manager. Seated behind them are, from left, residents Kathryn Pochin and Winnie Marriott, Companion Maz Blackhall, resident Joan Drake, café volunteer Katie Guy, and residents Joyce Ware and Don Skilling.[/caption]

Karlene Horswill, our Companionship Team Leader, said: “We wanted to raise so much more, but due to the constraints of Covid regulations last year we were restricted in what we could do. We are however proud of what we managed to raise and we aim for so much more over the coming months.”

Friends of Stour Connect is dedicated to improving facilities and access at the day centre which is in Stour View Close in Sturminster Newton.

The charity aims to target rural and social isolation affecting the elderly, the physically disabled and those with learning difficulties.
Café volunteer Katie Guy told the visitors: “It’s so wonderful what you have done. This money means so much to our cause and we appreciate every penny given to us.”
Newstone House residents have nominated Friends of Stour Connect as their main charity to support for the past two years. In that time, they have raised nearly £500 to help with its work.

Newstone House resident Don Skilling said: “This is such a worthy cause and it is lovely to have the opportunity to give something back to the community.”

Residents celebrate 72 years since saying: “I do”

We staged a magical anniversary party for two of our residents who were celebrating 72 years of marriage
Valerie and Bill Sharp, who married in 1951 after first meeting at a dance in Hull.

Our Aldbury’s Café had been specially decorated for the party with hearts, flowers and photographs taken at the couple’s wedding and during their many happy years together.

The festivities started with the reading of a congratulatory telegram from King Charles and Queen Consort Camilla and was followed by a special lunch, presents, music and laughter.

Bill and Val met when he asked her to dance. He later walked her home and revealed he had just joined the Royal Navy, before asking if she would write to him.

Val thought Bill must be older than her, as he was in the Navy, so she lied to him about her age and aqreed to write.

Bill had several long postings, up to two and a half years long, but they continued to write and still have their letters.

During one shore leave they decided to get married and tied the knot on March 31, 1951 at Saint Saviours Church in Hull.

They moved about the country during Bill’s time in the Navy, living in Portsmouth and then Dartmouth.

Their first son Steve was born in Hull and their second son David was born in Devon. And when Bill left the Navy they settled in Poole where their daughter Sarah was born.

They had many happy holidays in Malta, France, Spain and the Greek Islands, always wishing to be close to the sea. They also had a little sailing boat at Poole Harbour.

Over the years they have shared many interests including music and have supported Poole & Parkstone Choir (now Viva Voce choir), where they have many friends.

Bill was also a keen sportsman, playing squash well into his eighties, and being the oldest squash champion in Poole.

Bill, now 94 and Val, 92, have lived at The Aldbury since December 2022.

They have six grandchildren: Becky, Neil, Claire, Charlotte, Hannah and Joe. And nine great-grandchildren: Connor, Dylan, Fin, Tom, Jack, Millie, Tarna and Xander.

The youngest addition Ralphie-George was just 14 weeks old at the time of their anniversary.
The couple’s daughter Sarah Gilling said: “Mum and dad came to The Aldbury together as always and we are all so grateful to the fantastic Aldbury family who have continued to provide care and support to them and have enabled them to stay together. The party, the lunch, everything was amazing and we all had a lovely time celebrating their anniversary.”
Lunch was prepared by our Chef Izabela Turczyn-Kuzma who also baked a pink anniversary cake.

In the afternoon the Viva Voce choir visited.

Colten Companion Cara Duroe said: “The choir performed a lovely sing-a-long for all residents and left us one of their CDs to play in the future. It was a romantic and joyous celebration of a very special couple.”
Val said: “I couldn’t believe how wonderful the day was. I thought it was all a dream.”
Bill agreed: “We cherish every day we spend together and we are very thankful to all the staff who made our 72nd wedding anniversary so special. We couldn’t have asked for more.”

Our creative care homes celebrate the world of art

Our care homes across Dorset have chosen creative ways to celebrate visual art and culture
Residents at our homes in Poole, Sherborne, West Moors and Longham have all enjoyed activities, talks and presentations inspired by the annual Unesco World Art Day.

Abbey View in Sherborne showcased the work of 96-year-old artist and resident Rosemary Dodd.

Alongside an exhibition of several of her paintings, Rosemary was interviewed in front of an audience of fellow residents by her daughter Roz and friend and auctioneer Matthew Lacey.

Rosemary was especially active as an artist in the 1960s. Two of her pieces adorned the walls of the Royal Society of British Artists’ summer exhibition in London in 1966 and she recalled being invited later to a Women of the Year luncheon in Dorchester.

Rosemary said she was delighted to have the opportunity to exhibit her work at Abbey View and speak about her talent and enthusiasm for art to an audience.
She said: “I have always loved art and colour. From my earliest memories as a child, I loved to draw.”
Companionship Team member Bev de Bruyn said: “During question time from a full house of residents, Rosemary radiated such joy and passion. It was delightful to watch her being interviewed and to hear her insights.”

At Brook View in West Moors, residents were treated to a talk and art demonstration by New Forest-based equine illustrator and author Alan Langford. They watched and asked questions as he sketched and coloured a picture of a horse. As he worked, he explained the different techniques he was using.

[caption id="attachment_12290" align="alignnone" width="1024"] Visiting artist Alan Langford holds the picture he created at Colten Care’s Brook View in West Moors. With him are residents Paula Merels, left, and Pam Roberts.[/caption]

Resident Paula Merels said: “It was fascinating to see the painting coming to life before our very eyes. It was fun and educational.”

At the end of the visit, Alan donated his picture to the residents. “They were absolutely enthralled by Alan’s session, how quickly he built up the picture, and his surprise gift at the end,” said Companionship Team member Jo Vardy. “Alan has kindly offered to return to hold an art masterclass, hearing that we have some keen painters among us, especially residents Patricia Upshall and Pam Roberts who were transported back to happy memories of days when they were creating art themselves.”

At The Aldbury, Colten Care’s dedicated dementia care home in Poole, residents celebrated World Art Day by decorating canvas squares in ten different artistic styles. They added lettering so that when the squares were put in a sequence, they spelled out the name of the home.

[caption id="attachment_12289" align="alignnone" width="1024"] Residents at The Aldbury in Poole discussed different artistic styles while decorating canvas squares. Pictured, seated from left, are Jeanette Macklin, Brian Hayles and Joyce Holden. With them are Companion Cara Duroe, standing left, and Companion Team Leader Sue Miles.[/caption]

The session was an opportunity to discuss art history and the influence of movements such as cubism, surrealism, impressionism and pop art.

Resident Joyce Holden completed a Mona Lisa-inspired paint-by-numbers square, saying afterwards: “My own masterpiece, I’m proud of that.”

And fellow resident Jeanette Macklin said: “We had great fun. It was nice to learn all about the different artists.”

At Colten Care’s Bourne View in Poole, residents made and decorated bookmarks for distribution to local libraries and community contacts.

The focus at Fernhill, Colten’s dementia care home in Longham near Bournemouth, was on creating a ‘tree of life’ artwork reflecting the four seasons of the year.

World Art Day has been celebrated internationally every year since 2012 on the April birthday of renaissance genius Leonardo Da Vinci.

Return visit to Poole RNLI is wish come true for Yvonne, 106

One of the UK’s oldest people, born halfway through the First World War, enjoyed a wish come true when she revisited the RNLI College in Poole, a favourite place for trips with her family and friends
106-year-old Yvonne Glover is a former hydrographer who spent much of her career measuring water depths and checking for hazards in Poole Harbour.

She even has a harbour buoy named after her near Brownsea Island and the Wych Channel, Glover’s Buoy.

Born in Boscombe in 1916, Yvonne used to swim between the ferry and quay when she was a girl.

She was a member of Bournemouth Swimming Club and went on to compete at county and national level, becoming a backstroke champion in 1932 and narrowly missing out on a place at the Berlin Olympics in 1936.

Now living here at Bourne View care home in Poole, Yvonne expressed a wish to carers that she would love to see the harbour and college once again, so they made it happen for her.

Our team member Julie Wathen said: “Yvonne was talking to us about her life experiences and said she would really love to go to the lifeboat college’s first-floor restaurant for coffee and look out over the harbour.

“I thought we could do better than that and asked the RNLI if she could have a personal tour as well.

“They were only too happy to agree and their longest serving volunteer, Tony Scutt, very kindly provided a wonderfully informative two-hour tour.
“Yvonne was delighted. She was able to see the training pool and learn how it can be set to replicate rescues in different conditions such as rough seas and night times.
“She heard how crews are trained to cope with capsized lifeboats and descend into seas from height.
“She said she had never learned so much about it and found it all fascinating.”
After watching footage of a lifeboat launch filmed in rough seas off East Anglia, Yvonne spent time in a training simulator.

Julie said: “She experienced what it must be like to battle through rough seas to a burning ship, following the path of a helicopter, avoiding collisions with smaller vessels and keeping watch for survivors in the water.”

Yvonne then fulfilled her original wish for a coffee upstairs in the college restaurant, looking out over the harbour.
“Tony continued to talk with us and answer our questions,” said Julie. “Yvonne asked where the lifeboat crews came from and recalled a time before the RNLI when local fishermen – and she named some of the fishing families – used to man the lifeboats.
“We compared the training pool to the swimming baths she used to compete in and Yvonne recalled that she also used to swim in the harbour when she was younger, from the ferry to the quay.

“We also watched training exercises being conducted on the jetty below us.”

During her career as a hydrographer, Yvonne worked for three consecutive harbourmasters at Poole. In retirement she continued to visit the RNLI College with family and friends for special occasions such as birthdays.

Julie added: “Yvonne had a beautiful morning courtesy of the RNLI. It was a real pleasure and privilege to help make her wish come true. She is a lovely lady with an amazing sense of adventure who still enjoys being out in the fresh air and loves water.”

Yvonne, who has always lived locally, said: “For me, the most exciting part of the morning was the simulator. It was thrilling. We had a wonderful trip. I’m amazed how the RNLI has grown over the years.”

Digger and dumper wish comes true for building site fan John, 84

84-year-old John had a birthday wish come true on a Salisbury building site.
John Parfitt, who lives here at Braemar Lodge, donned a hard hat, hi-viz jacket and tough boots for the chance to sit at the controls of a digger and a dumper truck.

The visit was a hands-on opportunity to check progress on the home’s forthcoming extension, Stratford Court.

In his working life, Watford-born John did a range of jobs including being an agency worker on various building sites, hence his interest.

With all safety precautions followed and under close supervision, he was thrilled with the visit.

[caption id="attachment_5424" align="alignnone" width="1024"] John Parfitt in the digger with Site Manager Paul Findlay, left, and Companionship Team Leader Graham Ballard.[/caption]

“I’m happy as Larry,” he said after a few minutes sitting at the controls of the eight-ton digger. “I’ve been looking across from Braemar Lodge, keeping an eye on how it’s all going and seeing the guys driving round. On my birthday in December I asked if I could come on-site and see it for real at a suitable stage and when the weather was good enough. Sitting here I just feel I’m in the right place at the right time. It’s comfortable and you have a sense of the power it can deliver.”
After being in the digger, John went to sit in a three-ton dumper truck, saying: “This is lovely, a great chance to see everything from a different angle out in the fresh air.”
John, who has lived in Salisbury since the 1980s, was accompanied throughout the visit by Site Manager Paul Findlay who explained how the controls on both vehicles work.
Paul said: “It was a real pleasure to give John such a great experience. I could tell he had been on building sites before. He had all the site banter.”
While John was enjoying himself in the digger and dumper, fellow residents Catherine Brighty and Pamela Rees were turning ‘detectorists’. They took a metal detector to search for items under the rubble and mud in a small, safe area well away from the main construction site.

[caption id="attachment_5425" align="alignnone" width="1024"] Catherine Brighty, left, and Pamela Rees get to grips with a metal detector in a safe area away from the main construction site for the home’s forthcoming extension, Stratford Court[/caption]

Although no treasure was revealed, they found various pieces of metal including screws, nails, coins, wire, a drill bit, a tap and a battery.

The residents’ visit provided an opportunity to see how the build is developing since groundworks began in November 2022.

Stratford Court is on the site of a former charity-run care home which had been lying vacant before it was demolished in 2020.

The new extension will house 36 bedrooms, each with an en-suite wet room, split over three floors, including a garden floor.

Accommodation will extend to 2,700 sq m or 29,052 sq ft.

As well as bedrooms, there will be plant, training and staff rooms and a second-floor guest suite. The main entrance and reception area will be accessed from road level.

The build programme is expected to last around 18 months, with interiors and fit out due in spring 2024 and overall construction completed in summer 2024.

When it is ready, some Braemar Lodge residents will move in while the original home undergoes a phased refurbishment with 49 new bedrooms, taking the combined capacity to 85 bedrooms.

Ian Heard, Group Director of Construction at Colten Developments, said the construction will involve around 30 sub-contractor companies employing around 250 tradespeople.
“Everything needs coordinating to ensure the project is delivered on time and on budget,” he explained. “Every construction project has its challenges but we are a compact professional team operating under one roof and have the ability to make dynamic decisions to overcome any challenge. This is an exciting project for Colten Developments and we are looking forward to delivering another fine home to Colten Care.
“The most important thing on this project is to ensure that we keep any disruption to Braemar Lodge to a bare minimum so that our residents aren’t impacted. Our site manager is in regular contact with the home to keep them informed on progress and any activities that may cause any disturbance.”

Colten Care homes stage egg-celent Easter fun

The Easter Bunny hopped in, children came along to make bonnets and entertain with songs, and gardens hosted egg hunts for all to enjoy
Easter activities at all our homes brought residents, families and visitors together for a happy season of fun and laughter.

At Abbotts Barton in Winchester, children from Harestock Primary School – regular weekly visitors since January this year – joined residents for an Easter crafting session.
Companionship Team Leader Kirsty Sawyer said: “It was lovely to see the conversations going across the generations as together they set about creating the perfect Easter bonnet.”
The Worthy Road home also held its annual Easter egg hunt with eleven children from the local community taking part.

Kirsty said: “They had a great time running around the garden in search of eggs and carrots and afterwards were invited to stay for a drink and cake.

“The children were delighted with their prizes including Mia who won a book, Ryan who won an easter egg and Summer who won a chocolate bunny.”

Loraine Martin, a resident of Abbotts Barton, said: “Welcoming our young visitors was such a nice way to celebrate Easter.”

At Fernhill in Longham near Bournemouth, there was an Easter parade complete with bonnets and bunnies along with songs performed by entertainer Paul Hammond.
“Everyone had a wonderful time,” said Ann Marie Knight, a Companion at the dedicated dementia care home. “This was a great party for Easter with residents, friends, family members and staff all up on the dance floor. It was an amazing atmosphere, everyone laughing, smiling and having fun.”
Here at Linden House we also got into the Easter spirit with a musical afternoon.

[caption id="attachment_6183" align="alignnone" width="1024"] The Robins Choir from Lymington Infants School perform Easter songs for residents.[/caption]

They hosted a visit by the 28-strong Robins Choir from Lymington Infants School who showed off their Easter bonnets and sand several Easter songs and hymns.

“All the residents agreed they’d had an enjoyable afternoon and are looking forward to the Robins’ next visit,” said Companionship Team Leader Chris Dimmick.

Childrens’ visits bridge generation gap

A storytelling group is helping to turn Monday mornings into eagerly anticipated times of fun and interaction for our residents

We have begun welcoming a weekly visit from young mums and toddlers co-ordinated by the charity Truth Be Told.

Our carers at the home say it is an ideal opportunity to bridge the generation gap and improve residents’ quality of life while providing children aged four and under with meaningful play and experience of older people.

Visits, led by Truth Be Told representative Faye Davis, involve reading and telling stories, swapping and sharing props and singing songs with actions to perform.

Our Companionship Team member Ann Marie Knight said: “It is just lovely seeing this group interact so well together. Everyone is happy, smiling and laughing.
“Our residents get so much out of Truth Be Told coming into our home as do the mums and toddlers. The youngest to have come in with the group so far has been only three weeks old.”
The visits have a different theme each week to cultivate ongoing interest and residents wear a name badge to help them become familiar to the group.

Ann Marie said: “We try to keep to the same residents each week so that the children and families get to know them and form a good relationship.”

[caption id="attachment_6100" align="alignnone" width="1024"] Resident Joan Vohra is all smiles during an action song[/caption]

Resident Joan Vohra said: “The visits are great fun and we always look forward to them.”

Fernhill, has chosen Truth Be Told as its charity of the year for 2023.

[caption id="attachment_6101" align="alignnone" width="1024"] Resident Dorothy Banks reads aloud to a mum and her son[/caption]

Residents and staff will be raising funds to support the group through activities such as craft sales and other events at the home.

Truth Be Told is an innovative community-led social action project founded by professional storyteller Gemma Gillard.

Its stated aim is to ‘restore intergenerational community which will improve the mental, emotional and spiritual wellbeing of everyone involved’.