International Dance Day Brings Joy to Court Lodge

Residents from Court Lodge joined their friends at Linden House for a special International Dance Day celebration in Lymington, filled with music, movement, and happy memories.
The event featured a dazzling live Latin and ballroom performance by professional dancers Kamil Kuroczko—star of Poland’s Dancing with the Stars—and Caitlin Heasman, whose grandmother is a resident at Linden House. Court Lodge residents, including 102-year-old former dancer Margaret Honeyman, enjoyed a front-row seat for the show.
Margaret said:

“It was great to see a live show like this.”

Everyone got involved in the celebration, joining fellow residents and team members from both homes for a memorable afternoon.

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New Forest care home residents and staff help raise record funds for charity

Residents, families and team members at Colten Care, including our six homes in and around the New Forest, have raised a record £43,220 for good causes in the past year.
The amount is 29% up on Colten Care’s previous year’s charity total which itself was 43% higher than the year before.

Beneficiaries include local food banks, conservation groups, animal rescue services, healthcare and disability charities and organisations helping children and the elderly.

In our New Forest ‘cluster’, three homes in Lymington and one each in Brockenhurst, New Milton and Mudeford together raised £17,500.

Kingfishers in New Milton achieved the highest amount for a single home across the whole Colten Care group, £6,332.48.

From this, two main causes, New Milton Men’s Shed and New Forest Disability Information Centre, have both received £2,781 each.

Activities at Kingfishers included staging events such as a community summer fete.

Resident and fundraiser Mollie Speirs said: “I like helping people, even if it’s only doing something small.”

Woodpeckers in Brockenhurst, and Avon Reach in Mudeford also raised sums above the £3,000 mark.

 

The main beneficiary of help from Avon Reach was Christchurch Food Bank+ with activities in support including a cycling challenge on a static bike in the home’s foyer.
Ron Morris, one of the residents who took part, said: “It was a privilege to get in the saddle and do what we could to support this local charity.”
Thanking all at Avon Reach, Manager of Christchurch Food Bank+ Tracy Blick said: “This is an amazing amount that will help so many families in the Christchurch community.”

Woodpeckers’ main charity was The Brockenhurst Gateway club, a social club for adults with learning difficulties. Activities in support included a six-hour cardio drumming marathon and a community festival of light.

The club is part of a wider New Forest Mencap network set up in the 1980s. Among those at the cheque presentation was Woodpeckers resident Frances Riches, who recalled being at the inauguration of Mencap’s New Forest branch.

In Lymington, residents and staff at Court Lodge presented a cheque to Lymington Hospital Friends after £1,617 was raised at events including a garden party and a staff ‘Halloween marathon’ run.

Arthur England, a trustee and Joint Chair of the Friends, said: “It was great to go along to receive the cheque and meet some of the residents who took part in this sterling effort.  We really appreciate support from local organisations to help us raise money to go towards the work of Lymington Hospital and improve patient care.”

Colten Care’s group-wide total of £43,220 means the provider has benefited charities, voluntary community groups and other organisations by nearly £115,000 in the past five years.
Colten Care’s Chief Operating Officer Elaine Farrer said: “It is always up to our residents to decide who we support.

“As well as organising cash donations and raffle prizes, our teams enable residents to do their bit through creative activities they really enjoy and that keep them fully engaged with their local communities.”

RAF nurses give retired officer Anne a flying start to 100th birthday

A former RAF Nursing Officer enjoyed a 100th birthday surprise when three serving military nurses came to wish her well in uniform.  
Centenarian Anne Burchell was all smiles as she welcomed Laura Rutter, Pauline Ibarra and Elisa Iannidinardi to the lounge of her Lymington care home, Court Lodge.

The visit, secretly arranged by Anne’s granddaughter, provided a happy opportunity to compare the past and present RAF and was among a series of birthday activities.
“It took me completely by surprise, said Anne. “It was wonderful to spend an hour discussing the differences between nursing in the RAF today and my time sixty to seventy years ago.

“I enjoyed seeing the new uniform and how smart the ladies looked, as well as how confident they were.”
Born in Branksome, Poole, in 1925, Anne joined the Princess Mary’s Royal Air Force Nursing Service (PMRAFNS) in 1947 after completing her nurse training at Middlesex Hospital.

She went on to spend 12 years as an RAF Nursing Officer with two years’ service in Singapore, two in Germany and six months on an aircraft carrier. She also nursed at numerous hospitals throughout Britain.

After she retired from nursing, she did voluntary work and, with husband Frederick, travelled all over the UK and across the world and followed her hobbies of tennis, bowling and gardening.

The birthday call by the serving RAF nurses was just the start of Anne’s birthday celebrations. It was followed by lunch out at The Haven restaurant in Lymington with family members who travelled from France, Scotland and London to be with her on her big day.

Companionship Team members at Court Lodge also arranged a special treat, a birthday lunch on a separate day at The Captains Club Hotel & Spa in Christchurch.

Team Leader Julia Puia said: “Anne mentioned to us how much she would love to return to The Captains Club. She used to visit the hotel regularly and have weekends away there by the river as it made her relax and she enjoyed the beautiful views.

“With this in mind we planned a birthday lunch with a few of her friends from Court Lodge. She had a wonderful time with Gweneth, June and Lesley, and had a nice walk along the river, reminiscing on her past visits and how lovely it was to be there again.”
Anne said: “The food was exceptional, just how I remember it, and that beautiful sunshine sitting in the window made my day. I thank everyone at Court Lodge for taking the time to plan it.”
Court Lodge Home Manager Rebecca Hannam added: “Anne is recognised by the Court Lodge team as being very tech savvy for a 100-year-old and keeps in touch with family using her iPad and phone.”

Colten Care launches mental health strategy to champion team wellbeing

Colten Care has trained 32 team members as Mental Health First Aiders (MHFAs) to help colleagues maintain and improve their work-life balance.
Colten Care has prioritised the training as part of a wider focus on wellbeing. Organisers say the response from participants has been highly positive and already leading to a demonstrable shift in how mental health is talked about and supported in the workplace.

With guidance from Mental Health England, Colten Care planned the training for two groups of 16 colleagues over two days.

Sessions were held in training suites at two of its dedicated dementia care homes, Linden House in Lymington and The Aldbury in Poole.

Trainees included Home Managers, Clinical Leads, Care Trainers, Healthcare Assistants, HR Managers and Maintenance and Gardening team members.
“Staff were asked if they would volunteer for the role of MHFA, and the response was great,” said wellbeing strategy lead and MHFA Barney Baxendale. “These dedicated individuals received personal certificates for their time in training and are now equipped to offer a listening ear, guidance and signposting to colleagues who may be struggling.
“The service is offered to all 2,000 of our staff completely free of charge. Now, no matter where they are located across our 21 homes or our head office, they have someone they can see in person if they need to. Phone and video calls are also an option if they prefer.

“Training session content included the many influences on mental health, what ‘first aid’ means in this context, how best to approach someone who may be struggling, the importance of listening and reassurance, and how to identify a support network.”

The sessions were delivered by external mental health training consultant Christo Hudson.

After serving in the RAF, Christo spent 12 years as a commercial pilot but found himself unemployed when the airline he worked for went into administration at the onset of the pandemic.

As well as flying, his airline career had included being a flight data monitor, a role that involved gathering insight on the behaviour of fellow pilots.

The aim was to address human factors such as stress, fatigue, relationship issues and financial worries that might affect pilots’ performance and lead to safety-critical failures.

Christo, who was in shock and questioning his role in life after redundancy, steadily found the strength to apply some of the learnings from his data monitor experience to establish a new career delivering mental health first aid and suicide prevention training to individuals and organisations.

A key focus for him is the importance of being able to share experiences, feelings and emotions.

Christo, who is based in Edinburgh, said: “I teach people about the power of human connection and that even when someone’s world may feel so dark, lonely, cold and scary, there is always hope.”
On his sessions with Colten Care specifically, he said: “It’s about equipping staff with the skills to recognise when a colleague isn’t quite themselves and confidently being able to step in with support. The uptake has been good – people are engaging, conversations are happening, and we have been seeing a real shift in how mental health is talked about and supported in the workplace.
“In a sector built on care, it’s easy to focus solely on the wellbeing of the residents, however I think that looking after those who provide that care is just as important. This initiative ensures that mental health support is woven into daily life, not just something for a crisis. By normalising these conversations, Colten Care is leading the way in making the care sector a place where staff feel valued, supported and able to ask for help when they really need it.”

As well as training and appointing MHFAs across the organisation, Colten Care’s wellbeing strategy includes encouragement for many activities at individual home level.

Initiatives so far have included dedicated ‘wellbeing weeks’ for teams, soundbath sessions, a trip to a salt-water sauna, ‘fun at work’ days and participation in February’s Time to Talk Day, a national mental health awareness campaign led by Rethink Mental Illness and Mind in partnership with the Co-op.

Colten Care team members have also received ‘wellbeing packs’ containing a guide on dealing with stress at work along with a ‘goodie bag’ of treats.

At Abbotts Barton in Winchester, Senior Nurse Joanna Sliwka welcomed receipt of her pack, saying: “It makes you feel important and shows you that the management care about their staff.”

Abbotts Barton Home Manager Dee Lovewell said: “To help embrace team wellbeing even further, we are providing a new outdoor break area and starting new slimming and walking clubs. We want all team members to feel supported and have an opportunity to contribute to their own wellbeing.”

‘Fun at work’ days, held so far at Fernhill and Brook View, have included themed lunches, party games, casual clothes days and an interactive song and dance show with visiting performer Dame Daisy that residents enjoyed too. Brook View resident Diana Pearce said after the home’s singalong with Daisy: “I’ve had the best day ever!”

Companionship Team Leader Claudia Canosa said: “It was an inclusive environment where everyone felt free to express their joy and a reminder of the power of connection among staff and residents at Brook View.”

Fab-u-lous! Charity dance contest raises £80,000 with help from Colten Care

A Strictly-style ballroom dance competition supported Colten Care has raised more than £80,000 for a Dorset-based palliative care charity.
Forest Holme Hospice’s Strictly Extravaganza, which had headline sponsorship from Colten Care, involved months of practice by amateur contestants and culminated in a glittering finals evening on the dance floor at Poole Lighthouse.

The competition saw participants drawn from a public call for entries team up with professional dancers for rehearsals leading to live performances on the big night. Each contestant has a personal connection to the hospice.

An audience of around 350 people were entertained as an esteemed panel of judges from the dance world voted on which of the ten couples on show deserved to lift the glitterball trophy.

The panel included Jason Edwards, winner of Forest Holme’s inaugural Strictly Extravaganza in 2023, Alexandra Hixson, professional ballroom and Latin dance teacher, and Maxwell Saban, international ballroom dancer and author.

At the end of a keenly contested evening, begun with a three-course dinner, the winners were declared to be Tom Redman and his professional partner Diana Coojacar with a high-energy jive.

Tom danced in memory of his wife Clare, who was under the care of Forest Holme.

Staff from Forest Holme and Colten Care teamed up for a lively curtain raiser to start the evening, a Charleston group dance they had learned in their own time.

And the event featured a raffle and silent auction, contributing to a grand total of £80,387 since the competition was launched last summer with an event at Bourne View care home in Poole.

The funds will go towards enhancing a range of services at Forest Holme, including nursing and counselling services, complementary therapies and equipment.

Under the sponsorship agreement, Colten Care residents who enjoy dance had the opportunity to watch rehearsals, demonstrations and performances brought to their homes.

One in-home show, at Bourne View in November 2024, was performed by brother-and-sister dancers Oliver and Eva Beardmore.

Residents were treated to dances by the pair such as a waltz, Viennese waltz, cha cha and jive. “It was wonderful,” was the comment from resident Peter Prior.

Laura Davis, Colten Care Marketing & Communications Manager, said: “Strictly Extravaganza was an amazing initiative that showcased dance talent and raised vital funds for the hospice. It was a true celebration of community and generosity.”
Laura’s comments were echoed by Forest Holme Fundraiser Claire Cooper who said: “This event was truly magical – a night of joy, passion and community spirit that exceeded every expectation. To raise over £80,000 is simply phenomenal, and it’s a testament to the dedication of everyone involved.

“From the dancers and sponsors to our wonderful guests, each person played a vital role in creating this unforgettable evening. On behalf of Forest Holme, thank you for helping us make a real difference.”

Care home carol singers unite for community Christmas tree festival

More than 20 residents from six of our care homes across the New Forest and Christchurch came together to sing carols at a community Christmas tree festival.
The parties, joined by relatives, friends and staff members, performed for visitors at the annual charity fundraiser at Lymington’s St Thomas Church.

While some rehearsals took place at homes leading up to the event, it was the first time the combined choir had sung the carols in unison and in public.

The conductor was our Music and Arts Partner, professional musician Fiona Pritchard, who led the singers through a mix of traditional and modern carols.

The 12 piece-set included timeless classics such as The Holly and the Ivy, In the Bleak Midwinter, When a Child is Born, White Christmas and the Angels’ Carol by English composer John Rutter.

Fiona said: “The residents chose the carols to perform and did a lot of preparation beforehand. We sang the Angels’ Carol for the very first time. They loved learning that one and it was a huge achievement for everyone to sing it in public.

“This was a lovely occasion, an opportunity to launch into advent with a wonderful celebration of music, singing and Christmas trees, really unifying for everybody.”
Some of our singers were making a return trip to St Thomas, having performed at the same festival in 2023, while for others it was a new experience.

Fiona added: “More than a few people remembered each other from last year whereas others had no idea what to expect. You could see the anticipation in people’s eyes as we set up and got ready to sing. It was a very special, memorable experience to come together and sing as one, with the acoustics of the church adding to the joy.”
Among the performers were three residents from Kingfishers in New Milton: Susan McPhee, Molly Speirs and Jack Phillips.

Jack said: “We had such a warm welcome at the church and we could see audience members joining in when we sang which was fantastic. A festive singalong is such a wonderful way to bring people together.”

As well as Kingfishers, the singers came from Woodpeckers home in Brockenhurst, Avon Reach in Mudeford and the Lymington homes Belmore Lodge, Court Lodge and Linden House.

Residents from the homes also went hands-on to support the festival by making decorations for several trees purchased by Colten Care that were sold in aid of church charity the Friends of St Thomas.

They were among dozens of trees contributed by local companies and organisations that were put on display for sale to the public.

Involvement in the Lymington festival is just one of the many ways Colten Care residents are celebrating Christmas this year.

A choir of residents and staff from Bourne View in Poole, Amberwood House in Ferndown and Fernhill in Longham spent weeks rehearsing carols to perform in St Peter’s Church, Bournemouth, part of a public service hosted by the disability charity Diverse Abilities.

Fernhill is also the venue for two ‘carols by candlelight’ evenings with visiting Girl Guides and Brownies.

Among other homes’ community activities, Brook View in West Moors welcomes a visiting choir from nearby St Mary’s Church, Canford Chase in Poole is hosting a ‘mince pie and quiz social’ and Christmas markets feature at Abbotts Barton and St Catherines View in Winchester and Braemar Lodge in Salisbury.

The Sturminster Newton Choral Society is performing at Newstone House in the Dorset town, while Woodpeckers is offering Brockenhurst villagers an opportunity to ‘meet the reindeer’ at its annual Christmas community get-together.

There are also Christmas fetes and fayres, live music, pantomimes, gala lunches and dinners, Christmas jumper days, donkey visits and a host of other festive games and competitions being held at Colten Care’s 21 homes over the Yuletide season.

A Visit from South Africa

Sybil couldn’t have asked for anything more perfect than a surprise visit from her sister, Phia, all the way from South Africa!
They had a wonderful time catching up on family news and everything they’ve been up to over the past few years.

Sybil is very close to Phia and often talks about her, so having her visit in person meant the world to her. Seeing her sister has lifted Sybil’s spirits, and she couldn’t be happier. It was truly a heart-warming day to remember.

Colten Care residents play their part in acts of Remembrance

Residents have joined families and community friends to play their part in honouring the fallen.
Remembrance season has given residents and team members at our care homes in Dorset, Hampshire, West Sussex and Wiltshire the opportunity to reflect and commemorate.

It has been especially poignant for those who served in the armed forces or have childhood memories of wartime.

While making silhouettes of soldiers, knitting or crocheting poppies or attending community parades or services, dozens of residents have taken time to reflect on the season’s themes of sacrifice and service.

One-hundred-year-old World War Two veteran Boyd Salmon was invited by the Royal British Legion to cut the ribbon on the poppy display at Lymington War Memorial.

A resident at Court Lodge in Lymington for the past four years, the former Royal Navy officer was the honorary guest at the occasion and rose from his wheelchair confidently to perform the task.

Boyd, who was badly injured clearing enemy mines from a beach in The Netherlands in 1945, is well known in the Lymington community.

He has a certificate of appreciation and a lifetime membership of the Royal Naval Association and was invited to join Lymington’s official D-Day 80th anniversary parade in June 2024.
Court Lodge Home Manager Rebecca Hannam, who accompanied Boyd to the Remembrance memorial, said: “He wore his medals with pride as he cut the ribbon.”
Similarly, ex-service personnel living at Brook View in West Moors took part in a community Remembrance parade in the Dorset town.

Veteran JoJo Cook laid a wreath for her RAF Squadron and David Vincent, who served in the Royal Navy, carried a wreath on behalf of all at Brook view.

The home was one of many across Colten Care to display poppy installations carefully made by residents.

One lady, Gwen Carter, knitted all year and contributed a sizeable number to the home’s total of 300 poppies.
Companionship Team member Rebecca Grimsey said: “We staged the poppies at the entrance of Brook View for all to see and finished it off with a poppy-covered soldier with his head in his hands.”
Residents from Fernhill, a dedicated dementia care home, joined Remembrance events in Ferndown.

Among those on parade duty for the launch of the poppy appeal were three residents with service histories: Elisabeth Wilson, June Welford and Ron Howes.

The event, held at the Dorset town’s Barrington Centre and organised by Ferndown Town Council and the Royal British Legion, gave them the opportunity to speak with air cadets and Scouts, the Mayor of Ferndown, Terry Cordery, and the Deputy Lieutenant Liz Williamson.

Ron, who served in the RAF, was presented with a poppy by a young air cadet, Jackson Heath.
Ron told carers afterwards: “That was tremendous, and I love a marching band. Thank you for taking me.”
Residents at another dedicated dementia care home, The Aldbury in Parkstone, Poole, spent two weeks in the run-up to Remembrance Day making a giant poppy out of crepe paper which was hung in their front garden within easily visibility of busy Ringwood Road.

A no-less standout memorial was created and put on display in the garden of Newstone House in Sturminster Newton.

It was a curtain of poppy chains cascading from an arbour and gently lit by red lighting.

Attending its unveiling, Trevor Legg from Sturminster Newton Royal British Legion thanked the residents and staff for their work. “It means so much that people take the time and effort to continue the tradition of remembrance,” he said.

At Castle View in Poundbury, residents Betty Morris and Vera Brown had the honour of laying a wreath by the home’s Remembrance tribute of poppies made through painting, knitting and collage.

Residents created the work in a series of arts and crafts sessions alongside children from Prince of Wales First School and Puddletown Pre-school and adults with moderate learning difficulties who attend the day care service stAbility.

Vernon returns to make Southampton his port of call after 20 years  

A Lymington care home resident has been reunited with former colleagues at the Port of Southampton after a gap of nearly 20 years.
Robert Nock, known as Vernon, was a manager in the vessel traffic services (VTS) team at port operator Associated British Ports from 1981 until his retirement in 2005.

When he moved to Court Lodge earlier this year, carers asked him if there was a special wish they could make happen for him.

He told them he would love to go back and visit VTS again, so they liaised with current managers to arrange a trip to the present-day operating room.

Vernon was one of the first managers to be employed by VTS in the 1980s and had responsibilities for ensuring the safe and efficient 24/7 management of vessels and dock traffic throughout Southampton Water and much of the central and eastern Solent.

It was a busy role as the Port of Southampton continued to develop as the UK’s number one vehicle handling port, the country’s premier hub for deep sea trade and Europe’s leading turnaround cruise port.

On his return visit, Vernon saw first-hand some of the changes that have taken place at VTS since his retirement, including its £4 million operating room opened in 2016 and equipped with radar, an automatic vessel identification system, CCTV cameras and fibre-optic cables.

Vernon was welcomed by Russ Lynch, one of four watchers on duty on the day, who talked him through essential aspects of the new equipment and shared updates on people they both knew.

Russ said he remembered Vernon well and recalled how he had started with VTS just as Vernon was retiring.

As a surprise, VTS arranged for another of Vernon’s former colleagues to be on duty too.

Alf Hunnybun, a VTSO (vessel traffic service operator), who has worked at VTS for more than 44 years, enjoyed a long-overdue catch up with Vernon, with the pair sharing many memories of their working life together.

Alf said: “It was lovely to see Vernon again after so many years.”

Vernon said afterwards: “I had a wonderful time. It was fantastic to be back there even though a lot has changed. The job essentially remains the same. Seeing Alf was great, I remember working with him so well and we had such a nice catch up.”

Companionship Team Leader Julia Puia, who accompanied Vernon on the visit, said: “A big thank you to Russ and Alf for their time and their welcome. Vernon was absolutely delighted to see them both again.”

Sparkling night of champions as Colten Care celebrates team successes

Colleagues from our 21 care homes and head office are celebrating success at an in-house awards ceremony.
A glittering black-tie evening saw individual and group wins in nine categories at the Colten Champions awards reflecting all aspects of the care mix.

We honoured excellence in nursing, caring, team work, support services and other ways staff make a positive difference to residents, families and each other.

There were more than 1,000 nominations across our homes in Dorset, Hampshire, West Sussex and Wiltshire and our head office in Ringwood.

Over 400 nominations were submitted by residents and relatives.

Bincy Thomas, Senior Care Lead at Brook View in West Moors, Dorset, said she was taken by complete surprise when she heard her name read out as the winner of the Caring Excellence Award.
Bincy said: “Many people work in support of residents’ care and so I knew others deserved the award too.

“Yes, I was a finalist but I really didn’t think I would win it. It was a surprise and then after I went up, everyone was congratulating me and my fellow carers and nurses were saying ‘you deserve it, we are so lucky you are here’.
Asked for her view of the qualities that produce ‘caring excellence’, Bincy said: “Remember that everything is centred around the resident. You should always be honest and friendly to them and their relatives. I try to take care of everyone as if they were my own family. You act as a problem solver and you support your colleagues on the floor. I look at the team as my sisters and brothers.”

Also a winner, picking up the award for Resident Impact, was Ildiko Csanalosine Fuves, a waitress at Braemar Lodge in Salisbury.
“I was shaking and crying when I heard I had won,” said Ildiko. “I am really honoured and so happy. People said such beautiful things about me. I am so thankful.”
The Values award, designed to recognise an individual who exemplifies Colten’s company values of being friendly, kind, individual, reassuring and honest was won by Senior Gardener Chris Marsh.

He said he was ‘truly humbled’ to be nominated and to go on and actually win it was ‘something else entirely’.
Chris, who has worked for Colten Care for ten years, added: “When the guiding principles and values of your employer align with your own, it makes your job that much more enjoyable and fulfilling.

“Working for a company that recognises the value of outdoor spaces, and promotes the well-being that comes from gardens, social interaction and mental stimulation, makes my role one to truly treasure.

“Colten invests so much in these values, and I am proud to be part of an ambitious team that shares and develops this vision.

“At the heart of everything we do is the best cause of all: our residents. We work tirelessly to give them the best experience possible, to heal and uplift them and ensure they feel safe and valued.”
The awards ceremony took place at the Bournemouth Highcliff Marriott Hotel after a champagne reception and dinner. Afterwards, guests danced to live music from pop rock party band We Are Robot.

Event host was Hampshire-based Manley Hopkinson, a polar explorer and round-the-world yachtsman.
Manley said: “It was a superb evening and the energy was infectious. It was an honour to present the awards and speak to the teams. I felt humbled and inspired in equal measure.”
Colten Care residents were represented by guest of honour Mollie Speirs who travelled to Bournemouth from her care home, Kingfishers in New Milton.

For every resident or relative nomination made, Colten Care donated £10 to their respective care home’s charity of the year.

Colten Care Chief Executive Mark Aitchison and Chief Operating Officer Elaine Farrer were both present to introduce the awards.
Mark said: “Colten Champions is a brilliant way to celebrate colleagues who truly embody our values and consistently go above and beyond.

“I thank all those who put in a nomination, including so many residents and relatives, and of course congratulate all the winners, finalists and nominees.

“Their success is richly deserved and it is a privilege to work with them.”