More than a millennium as ten centenarians celebrate at Court Lodge

Ten amazing people aged 100 or more met in the same room at the same time for a remarkable centenarian celebration over afternoon tea.
The seven women and three men all live at our care homes in the south and gathered for the unique get-together in a lounge at the provider’s Court Lodge home in Lymington, Hampshire.

Their combined ages meant that a full 1,005 years of life – five more than a millennium – were represented.

Joining six Court Lodge centenarian hosts were fellow residents born in 1924 or before and now living at care homes in Salisbury, Bournemouth, Lymington and Brockenhurst.

After introducing themselves, the attendees shared stories from their long lives and spoke about their families, careers, interests, the care they receive today and how they feel about being centenarians.

Among those sharing early memories was 101-year-old Ula Rigg, who travelled to Lymington from Braemar Lodge in Salisbury where she has lived for the past two years.

Ula recounted how, as a five-year-old, she was chosen by her school to present a purse of money to the then Duchess of York, later the Queen Mother, who was making an official visit.

Ula, who was born in the Midlands and brought up in Bristol, passed round a photo of herself learning to curtsy before she met the famous royal and said: “As well as the curtsy I had to walk up four steps to the little platform where the Duchess was standing.

“I presented the purse and then to my utmost horror I nearly fell down the steps because I was so excited. I wanted to get back to my mum.”

With most of the group being great grandparents, there was considerable discussion of family life.

Ula was one of those who highlighted Skype and Facetime as means of staying in touch with children, grandchildren and great grandchildren here and across the world.

All of the group had their younger years impacted in one way or other by the Second World War.

Among her duties in a job at the Foreign Office in London, Court Lodge resident Iris ‘Margaret’ Honeyman worked on activities in support of the French Resistance. “It was a very challenging job, but I enjoyed it,” she said.

Former Royal Navy officer Boyd Salmon was just 18 when he was badly injured clearing enemy mines from a beach in The Netherlands in 1945.

After the war, Lymington-born Boyd became a Chartered Engineer, his profession until retirement.

Now living at Court Lodge, he says he “feels comfortable” and his care is “very good”.

Some of the group shared their ‘secrets of longevity’.

Ethel Wise, a former cook from Kent who lives at Avon Cliff in Bournemouth, said: “Hard work and a sense of humour.”

The advice from ex-nurse Diana Creasey, who lives at Woodpeckers in Brockenhurst and was a volunteer at Oakhaven Hospice for several years, is: “Keep active, follow a good diet and make sure to have lots and lots of fresh air.”

Court Lodge resident Eric ‘Richard’ Robinson, 100, said his secret was “never having smoked much and drinking very little alcohol”, adding: “When I was in the army, I gave my cigarettes and whisky away.”

Suggestions from others for a long life included chocolate, red wine, bananas, ‘staying calm and not getting heated about things’ and ‘staying away from men’, but the importance of family love and support was cherished most.

Asked how it feels to be a centenarian, Iris summed up the thoughts of several party guests, saying: “It feels no different but I do feel very proud to have made it to this age!”

Yorkshire-born Enid Docker, another Court Lodge resident, used to be a ballerina and ran her own ballet school for young children. She said: “Dancing was my passion, I love it.”

And on her life at Court Lodge now, Enid said: “I feel safe here, being 100 and still being alive feels nice.”

A specially made banner was displayed at the party highlighting that 100 years is the equivalent of: 1,200 months; 5,200 weeks; 36,500 days; 876,000 hours; 52,560,000 minutes; 3,153,600,000 seconds; 3,784,320,000 heartbeats; 894,000,000 blinks of the eyes; and 736,000,000 breaths.

Court Lodge Home Manager Rebecca Hannam said: “After they introduced themselves around the table, they really enjoyed chatting, getting to know each other and hearing about everyone’s lives and careers. It just goes to show that a great age is no barrier to making new friends.”

At the close of the party, each guest was presented with a 1924 penny farthing coin as a keepsake of the celebration.

 

Sailing fan Richard, 100, charts course to former yacht club

A 100-year-old former sailor has been reunited with the historic yacht club he was a member of for 40 years.
Richard Robinson said he had a ‘wonderful time’ after the team at Court Lodge arranged for him to enjoy a coffee morning and lunch at the nearby Royal Lymington Yacht Club.

Richard, who turned 100 in autumn 2023, joined the club in 1981, using it for much of the next four decades as a base for sailing his 26-foot Griffon boat Celtic.

He told carers and companions at Court Lodge of his wish to revisit the club and rekindle some long-standing contacts.

Staff at the home contacted club officials and arranged for Richard to spend half a day on a trip hosted by historian Graham Clarke.

The pair, joined by several other members, spent hours talking about their shared love of fun on the water and Richard’s memories of club life including the Royal Lymington Cup and the town’s regatta.
One anecdote Richard shared involved a personal encounter with royalty. After explaining that his sailing years around the world were far more about pleasure than competition, he said: “I used to sail Danish boats and one day I got a phone call. It was Prince Philip! And so I ended up teaching him how to sail.”
Richard also prompted much interest when he said his grandfather used to run a Dinky Toy factory in France, where he was born, and he was one of the first children to receive the scale model vehicle toys to play with.

Later in life, Richard went on to work for the factory making a range of Dinky Toy products including cars, trains and railway trackside accessories. As well as speaking French and English, he also learned Danish and Arabic.

Historian Graham said: “What a pleasure it was to see Richard back at the ‘Royal’, where members were fascinated to hear his anecdotes, not just of his time as a member but also from his century of memories.

“We pride ourselves on welcoming visitors, and never more so than when they have such interesting history of their own.”

Court Lodge Companionship Team Leader Julia Puia said: “Richard took a very active part in the morning gathering. The members found him very interesting to talk to and they had lots of history and reflections on sailing in common.

“Although he was born in France, Richard has loved living in Lymington over the years and the visit brought back many happy memories for him.”

Expressing his gratitude for the trip, Richard said: “I really do appreciate the time involved to organise this and take me there. I had a wonderful time.”

Renowned as a base for yachting, dinghy sailing and motor boating, the club was officially founded in 1922, the year before Richard was born.

It traces its origins back to being the Lymington River Sailing Club, which was established in 1914 but suspended during the First World War.

Richard’s visit ended with a follow-up invitation for him to visit the club once again in September.

Sky’s the limit as WWII veteran celebrates 100th birthday 

A Second World War veteran badly injured clearing enemy mines from a beach nearly 80 years ago has hit the heights to celebrate his 100th birthday.
Former Royal Navy officer Boyd Salmon travelled from his Lymington care home to Bournemouth Airport for a helicopter flight over Southampton Water, the Solent and the New Forest coastline.

It was one of several treats arranged by his family over a four-day ‘birthday season’ which involved help from team members at Court Lodge.

Two visiting naval officers presented Boyd with a certificate of appreciation and lifetime membership of the Royal Naval Association and, in a visit to Lymington Royal British Legion, he was invited to join an official D-Day 80th anniversary parade in June.

Back at the home, the birthday party featured a traditional British afternoon tea of cucumber sandwiches, scones with jam and cream, canapes, fizz and a nautically themed cake specially baked by Court Lodge chef Hannah Judd to highlight Boyd’s love of sailing.

Born in 1924, Boyd was 17 when he joined the navy. After his training, he arrived in Normandy just after the initial D-Day landings in June 1944.

He was tasked with helping to make the beaches safer by clearing enemy mines, duties he continued in the Netherlands. He also spent time on the Atlantic convoys and at the Navy’s Mediterranean base on Gibraltar.

In 1945, he was just a few feet away from a mine on a Dutch beach when it exploded and left him with severe abdominal injuries, a large scar and shrapnel embedded in his body.

After treatment at various hospitals, he spent time convalescing with fellow officers at Osborne House on the Isle of Wight.

After leaving the Navy in 1946, Boyd studied engineering and became a Chartered Engineer, his profession until retirement.

He and his late wife Jacqueline had two daughters and multiple grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Boyd’s helicopter ride with Bliss Aviation was arranged as a surprise by his daughter Anita, who travelled from her home in America for the birthday celebrations.

Boyd, who moved to Court Lodge from his nearby Lymington family home four years ago, said after the flight: “It was a dream come true and I thoroughly enjoyed it.”

And speaking at his party, he added: “I feel so very happy to be here at Court Lodge and I can’t thank the staff enough for everything they do. Being 100 really is not bad at all. It was a fabulous birthday. The cake was absolutely amazing and I’ve taken off the decorations to keep.”
Court Lodge Companionship Team Leader Julia Puia said: “We all wanted to make sure Boyd had the best family gathering with his loved ones coming to help him celebrate in style. He was ever so excited about the helicopter ride. He had a magnificent birthday and was truly touched by all the love around him. We all wish Boyd a Happy Birthday and a splendid year ahead.”

Court Lodge residents deliver Easter joy to community foodbank

Big-hearted residents at Court Lodge, gathered chocolate treats, filled gift parcels and delivered an Easter surprise to their local foodbank.
A party from Court Lodge travelled across Lymington to the New Forest Basics Bank with items donated by families and friends of residents and team members.

They handed over dozens of chocolate rabbits, Easter eggs, sweets and Easter-themed toys to help local families in need.

Residents spoke of their joy in going hands-on to help with the initiative.

100-year-old Margaret Honeyman said: “I enjoyed being part of the drop-off, being so local and such a good cause.”

Lesley Saunders said: “It was great to be a part of this and being able to help our own local people in need.”

Brenda Corfe said: “It has been a really lovely thing to do and all for a good cause.”

Residents were accompanied on their trip to the foodbank by Court Lodge Companionship Team Leader Julia Puia.
Julia said: “We enjoyed having a look around and finding out more about how the foodbank works.

“They were extremely grateful to us helping out this Easter and we would love to continue to support them.

“We’re also planning to have our own mini foodbank at Court Lodge and they absolutely loved that idea.”

Based in the Cannon Street East Car Park in Lymington, the New Forest Basics Bank distributes non-perishable food, personal hygiene items and basic household essentials to families in need.

There were Easter activities at our other care homes too, some of which had a fundraising element for charities supported by residents and staff.

Children from nearby schools and nurseries enjoyed Easter egg hunts at Avon Reach in Mudeford, Brook View in West Moors and the Winchester homes St Catherines View and Abbotts Barton.

Belmore Lodge in Lymington hosted an ‘Easter Eggstravaganza’ for families and friends of residents and staff. It featured a balloon modeller, face painting and various crafts.

Bourne View in Poole held an ‘egg hunt with a twist’ for children from St Joseph’s Primary School who had to solve riddles called out by residents to progress to each stage and find the chocolate treats.

At Wellington Grange in Chichester, residents welcomed youngsters from the local Little Pioneers nursery for games and craft activities. Together, young and not so young spent time in conversation as they made bonnets for an Easter parade.

Colten Care carol singers light up forest of Christmas cheer

More than 30 residents from six of our care homes joined forces to sing carols and entertain visitors at a church Christmas tree festival.
Performers from our homes across the New Forest and Christchurch were in fine voice amid the seasonal fun at St Thomas Church in Lymington.

Under the direction of our Music and Arts Partner, professional musician Fiona Pritchard, the choir sang ten carols, adding the gift of Yuletide music to complement a display that numbered more than 60 Christmas trees.

Fiona said: “It was so lovely to be able to bring all the homes together to sing. They rehearse individually and when they come together, the sound is magical.”

Jack Phillips, a resident at Kingfishers in New Milton, said: “It was a great afternoon, I just had the best day.”

As well as Kingfishers, the singers came from Woodpeckers in Brockenhurst, Avon Reach in Mudeford and the Lymington homes Belmore Lodge, Court Lodge and Linden House.

The festival, organised as an annual fundraiser by the Friends of St Thomas, ran over five days this year with Colten Care once again one of the partners alongside other businesses, organisations and charities.

As well as the opportunity to sing in public, several of our homes organised arts and crafts sessions in the run-up to the festival so that residents could make decorations for some of the trees on display.
“We are proud to support the festival here in Lymington, especially as three of our homes are just minutes away from the church,” said Laura Davis, Marketing and Communications Manager for Colten Care. “The logistics of bringing six homes together to perform is no mean feat, so hats off to all involved.

“Residents told us just how wonderful the day was, how the relatives were there to support and join in, and how the public were wowed by the fact there were so many residents there and how lovely it was to hear them sing. Everyone was joining in. It’s something people will go out and talk about.

“The residents and relatives had a wonderful afternoon and that is at the heart of why we take part.”
Involvement in the St Thomas Church festival is just one of the many ways our residents are celebrating Christmas this year.

A choir representing five of our homes is singing at a public service at St Peter’s Church in Bournemouth in aid of the disability charity Diverse Abilities. They are Fernhill in Longham, Amberwood House in Ferndown and the Poole homes Bourne View, Canford Chase and The Aldbury.

Bourne View is the venue for a separate rooftop carol concert with residents, families and friends from Amberwood House coming along to join in.

Also in the comfort of their own surroundings, residents at Bourne View, Avon Reach and Kingfishers will welcome visits by fellow carol singers on a ‘road trip’ from the Julia’s House hospice charity.

Children from a nearby day nursery will likewise entertain residents at St Catherines View in Winchester with carols.

At Braemar Lodge in Salisbury, residents and staff created a seasonal wreath tree to feature in an annual tree festival at the city’s St Thomas Church which is traditionally attended by thousands of visitors each year.

Across our 21 homes, residents will also enjoy Christmas fetes and fayres, live music, pantomimes, gala lunches and dinners, and a host of festive games and competitions.

In the pink as Colten Care residents do their bit to help end breast cancer

Residents and team members at Colten Care have united in a colourful display of solidarity to raise awareness of breast cancer and help fund research into the disease.
Our sister homes in Dorset and the New Forest staged a host of activities and events for the Wear It Pink campaign run nationally each year by charity Breast Cancer Now.

Residents at Court Lodge in Lymington, Kingfishers in New Milton and Amberwood House in Ferndown were among those dressing up in pink and having fun with hands-on fundraising games and get-togethers.

At Court Lodge, Home Manager Rebecca Hannam and Healthcare Assistant Eddie Brion bravely volunteered to stand outside ‘in the stocks’ and have wet sponges thrown at them.

One resident, Jack Harris, felt so sorry for them he insisted on being a target himself.

“Actually I very much enjoyed it,” said Jack. “It’s for a good cause and it was only fair to join in.”
Companionship Team Leader Julia Puia said: “It was a very fun and wet afternoon. We had a great time with lots of laughter. Everyone paid a pound a time to pick up and throw a soggy sponge. Residents enjoyed the activity and seeing Jack volunteer to take part was the best thing.”
Pink-themed goings on at Kingfishers in New Milton included an afternoon party, raffle and information session complemented by a foot-tapping country music singalong led by visiting entertainer Retro Rita.

Resident Jack Phillips said: “I enjoyed the music so much, it really made me want to dance.”
As well as holding a day of games and quizzes, residents at Amberwood House in Ferndown supported Wear it Pink by knitting pink ribbons to sell to friends and family.

Hundreds of pounds have been raised across the homes. Donations are still being collected ahead of a total amount being confirmed.

Breast Cancer Now funds life-changing support for cancer sufferers and research into new ways to help prevent, detect and treat the disease.

The charity has an ambition that by 2050 everyone diagnosed with breast cancer will live, and be supported to live well.

Wear it Pink has been the flagship annual fundraising campaign for Breast Cancer Now for more than 20 years.

For more information, visit www.breastcancernow.org

Golden shot for Colten Care residents raising a cuppa for Macmillan

Colten Care homes have hosted a series of Macmillan Coffee Mornings with an added Willy Wonka-style twist.
Residents, staff and visitors raising a mug at the annual charity get togethers were served freshly prepared homemade cakes and pastries in the traditional way.

But at each of Colten Care’s 21 homes, chefs baked one of the tasty treats as a ‘Golden Cup Cake’, containing a hidden layer of edible gold leaf through the middle only to be revealed when the cake was bitten into.

The lucky recipient won a bottle of bubbly, chocolates and a donation to Macmillan on their behalf.
“I couldn’t quite believe it was the golden one,” said a smiling Pamela Kately, the winner at Canford Chase in Poole.
More than 100 cup cakes were baked by Chef Izzy Turczyn-Kuzma at The Aldbury in Poole, with housekeeping colleague Michael Sheppard receiving the golden prize.

And at Brook View in West Moors, the cup cake winner was visitor Hannah Kirby who had only just arrived to visit her grandfather Harry.

Moments after making her coffee morning donation along with partner Leigh, Hannah bit into the cake and saw the gold, prompting cheers all round.

Hannah, who was then presented with her bottle of bubbly, said: “I didn’t realise what it was at first and wondered what I had found in the middle. It was a lovely surprise.”

As well as the Golden Cup Cake search, this year’s coffee mornings at Colten Care featured plenty of conversation and other fun. There were mufti days for staff, guess-the-weight-of-the-cake games, cake sales, singalongs and dances.

At The Aldbury, two musicians from the Bournemouth Symphony Orchestra, violinist Jennifer Curiel and pianist and French horn player Kevin Pritchard, performed popular classical pieces and childhood songs such as Run Rabbit Run. Among the residents singing and dancing along were Mary Cooper, Elizabeth Kay and Win Clowerly.

Fellow resident at The Aldbury, Abdu ‘Hobi’ Sabih, did his bit to collect donations. He helped Companion Melissa Siat Caparros to push the fundraising cake trolley around the home, chatting with residents, staff and visitors.
Elaine Farrer, Colten Care’s Chief Operating Officer, said: “We always support the Macmillan Coffee Morning with all 21 of our homes taking part. It’s a fantastic community initiative. We invite families, friends and local contacts to come and join us for a coffee social and enjoy the fun. The prospect of winning a golden cupcake adds even more interest.”
The first Macmillan Coffee Morning took place in 1990 with the simple idea of encouraging people to donate the cost of their cuppa to Macmillan Cancer Support to help the charity’s work for people with cancer. Since then, more than £300 million has been raised.

According to Macmillan, one in two of us will face cancer. The charity’s aim is to help everyone with cancer to live life as fully as they can.

For more information and to donate, visit www.macmillan.org.uk.

Colten Care residents honour ‘superstar’ carers with Champions awards

Hundreds of residents from our 21 care homes have honoured the staff who enable them to live the best lives they can every day.
Colten Care’s Champions awards prompted nominations across nine categories reflecting a range of clinical and non-clinical care.

Individuals, teams, homes and departments were all recognised as the annual scheme culminated in a glittering evening at Bournemouth’s Highcliff Marriott Hotel.

Around 140 guests dressed up in style for the awards ceremony and celebration, hosted by TV presenter Dr Hilary Jones.

Nominees and audience members mingled at a welcome reception before stepping into a specially decorated ballroom for dinner, the ceremony itself and the opportunity to dance the night away.

[caption id="attachment_13325" align="alignnone" width="1314"] AWARD. Lucy O’Brien, Senior Administrator at Bourne View in Poole, won the Warm Welcome award. With her is Dr Hilary Jones, who hosted the Colten Champions evening, and Elaine Sheppard, Head of Customer Support.[/caption]

Colten Care residents were represented by special guest Jean Smith, who lives in Poole home Bourne View.

She had previously met Dr Hilary at the home’s official opening in spring 2019 when her late husband, former Poole Mayor Ray Smith MBE, became the first resident to move in.

Catching up with the broadcaster and author once again as they stood on stage, Jean said: “I can’t believe I’m here.”

She then presented Rosa Santos, Senior Care Lead at Newstone House in Sturminster Newton, with the inaugural award for Resident and Relative Choice.

This category, which attracted more than 500 nominations from residents and families, was designed to recognise an individual or team ‘who have truly made a difference to your life or your loved one’s life since coming to Colten Care’.

The common theme for Rosa’s multiple nominations was her ‘kind and welcoming approach to both residents and relatives. Rosa has patience to understand residents needs so well which has such a positive outcome for their care’.
One relative wrote: “It is always a please to see Rosa on duty, she cared for my mother and father with such cheerfulness, she would make sure my father was helped upstairs to spend time with my mother when they were on different floors. She works hard to ensure our family are kept informed, added to this her professionalism and positive attitude.”
Among other category winners, Lucy O’Brien, Senior Administrator at Bourne View, who won the Warm Welcome award, described the moment her name was read out.

She said: “It was amazing, a total surprise. I was in a complete daze and then got quite emotional. It was lovely to go up and receive the award in front of everyone and meet Hilary Jones.”

[caption id="attachment_13326" align="alignnone" width="1262"] Colten Care resident Jean Smith, right, was Honorary Guest at the Colten Champions awards. She presented the inaugural Resident and Relative Choice award to Rosa Santos, Senior Care Lead at Newstone House in Sturminster Newton. With them is awards host and TV presenter Dr Hilary Jones.[/caption]
Colten Care Chief Executive Mark Aitchison said: “Colten Champions celebrates the pride and passion our amazing team shows every single day, caring for our residents and their families.

“It is an immense privilege to lead a team full of superstars, always prepared to go above and beyond.

“We thank everyone who put in a Colten Champions nomination and congratulate all the winners, finalists and nominees.”
Mark’s comments were echoed by Colten Care’s Chief Operating Officer Elaine Farrer, who added: “There are so many shining examples of our team supporting and caring for residents, embodying our values and consistently putting the resident at the very heart of all they do.”

After the ceremony, Dr Hilary said: “Colten Champions truly reflects the importance of quality care delivered by a team working together for the benefit of residents. It’s a great initiative and the awards evening is always such a happy occasion.”

As well as the Champions awards themselves, special congratulations were given on stage to Elena Barna, Home Manager at Abbey View in Sherborne, for the home’s recent Outstanding rating from sector regulator the Care Quality Commission.

It means that seven of Colten Care’s 21 homes in Dorset, Hampshire, Wiltshire and West Sussex are officially rated Outstanding, with all the rest rated Good.

A world of celebration delights music lovers at Colten Care

Fun-loving residents at Court Lodge, and our sister home’s, have celebrated World Music Day with singalongs, karaokes, themed parties and concerts.
From cardio drumming to hillbilly-style dances, there were joyful sounds filling the air to entertain residents and visitors alike at our 21 sister homes across the south.

At Kingfishers in New Milton, Hampshire, there was intergenerational festivity as children from Durlston Court School’s ukulele band came along to perform.
Resident Hugh Cooke said: “They were all so very good. I really enjoyed the concert.”

And Joyce Ponsonby said: “What a wonderful afternoon seeing the kids perform. I really enjoyed listening to them.”
Elsewhere, our staff and residents chose a variety of ways to showcase their own musical creativity and knowledge.

There was a music quiz at Whitecliffe House in Blandford, a six-decade jukebox celebration at Avon Cliff in Bournemouth and song and dance-themed coffee mornings at Court Lodge and Linden House in Lymington.

Woodpeckers in Brockenhurst held a ‘Walking on Sunshine’ music and movement session while Newstone House in Sturminster Newton staged an ‘Abba spectacular’.

Participants in a music and movement session at Woodpeckers in Brockenhurst

At Canford Chase in Poole, residents took the microphone and sang to each other in a garden karaoke.

At fellow Poole home The Aldbury, the focus was on cardio drumming and at Fernhill in Longham there was singing and dancing on the theme of ‘hillbilly blues’.
Fiona Pritchard, our Music & Arts Partner, said: “World Music Day was a great opportunity to celebrate the breadth of musical creativity our residents enjoy.

“There really was a lot of variety. People joined together to say thank-you for the many ways that music brings joy and pleasure to them.”

Having fun at a garden karaoke session at Canford Chase in Poole are Margaret Connor and Frank Daley

World Music Day has been celebrated every June since 1982. It originated in Paris from a proposal by the then French Minister of Culture, Jack Lang, as Fête de la Musique, a day when people were encouraged to play musical instruments in their neighbourhoods and in public spaces and parks.

Now celebrated in more than 120 countries, the aim remains to celebrate and have fun with music.

Canford Chase’s Senior Care Lead Abner Saclayan plays guitar. On vocals is Abner’s wife Rowena who visited the home to support the World Music Day celebration.